Sherry Ward recalls the pivotal moments that shaped her sister Tracie Blalock’s journey at TLC (formerly Tammy Lynn Center), where Tracie has been a resident since 1979. Tracie was 13 years old when she first moved in, after years of attending TLC’s day programs. Sherry vividly remembers how difficult it was for their mother to make the decision for Tracie to become a resident, though it was done out of love and the desire to ensure Tracie would always have a safe, nurturing place to live.

Sherry recalls a core memory of when she was in high school and touring so many different places with her mother because they wanted to offer Tracie something other than a state facility. “We visited some of those and they were horrible,” she said. “I remember seeing babies with hydrocephalus, or “waterhead babies” as they were known back then. They would just lay in their cribs, and it was upsetting because no one was holding them or nurturing them. They need to be loved just like everyone else.”

Growing up, Tracie was always loved by everyone, nurtured and included in the family’s adventures—whether at the lake, the zoo, or simply window shopping. “Whatever we did, Tracie was there,” Sherry said. This unwavering commitment to making Tracie feel included was a hallmark of their family’s approach to her care. Despite Tracie’s developmental delays and nonverbal nature, she was embraced and loved by her siblings and parents, who strived to give her as many “normal” experiences as possible. Whether it was taking her for a ride on a motorcycle or getting her portraits done at Glamour Shots, Sherry fondly recalls how her parents ensured that Tracie never missed out.

Sherry also remembers the curiosity people showed about Tracie when they were out and about. “People were always kind to us,” she recalled. She remembers a teenage bus driver in their neighborhood who had seen her walking with Tracie. One day, he asked about her, curious to know more about her condition. “I told him she was mentally retarded,” Sherry said, using the terminology of the time. “But he was never rude—just curious.” That same young man later went on to work with children with disabilities, offering pony rides at the state fair and other events, something Sherry found especially touching.

Another memory sticks out from when the family was window shopping at North Hills. Tracie had wandered off, and after a brief search, Sherry found her standing next to a couple who were sharing their french fries with her. “Tracie loves food, so she must’ve just been drawn to their table,” Sherry laughed. “But the couple was so kind about it. They didn’t mind at all, and they were just happy to share.” These experiences, according to Sherry, were typical of how people treated Tracie—with warmth, kindness, and sincere curiosity.

As Tracie grew older, her mobility became more limited. Once able to walk with ease, she now uses a gait belt to help maintain her balance. At 58 years old, Tracie is happy and well-cared for by the staff at TLC, many of whom have known her for decades. “They love her,” Sherry said, speaking about the caregivers who have become like extended family. Tracie, who has always had a love for food, still enjoys her meals despite requiring a pureed diet. “She watches the food wherever it goes,” Sherry laughed, remembering how Tracie signals her excitement when it’s time to eat. “She’ll let you know she’s not done yet.”

Sherry is now Tracie’s guardian, attending doctor’s appointments and making decisions for her well-being. Recently, she oversaw a procedure to help with Tracie’s swallowing issues, reflecting the continued care and concern her family has for her comfort and health. “Having grown up with a sibling who has disabilities, I find it incredibly easy to connect with others who have children or adults in their lives with similar challenges. Sharing our experiences can be comforting, and it’s nice to know that we have someone to talk to who understands what we’ve experienced.”

What makes TLC special to Sherry is not just the care, but the way the staff interacts with Tracie. “You just know,” Sherry said, when talking about the love and dedication the team shows. Her mother’s choice, difficult as it was, has ensured that Tracie has a home where she is cared for, respected, and loved, a legacy of care that Sherry deeply values to this day.

TLC is now embarking on the 2nd phase of its Igniting Hope Together capital campaign—the renovation of existing homes, Tucker and Civitan. Tracie will be among the many residents to benefit from beautifully refreshed spaces designed to foster community and connection. To support this phase of our campaign, visit HERE